From the minister:
Change Your Habits,
Take a Chance
Our Friday Nights at the Fellowship is a program that
resulted from both the August sustainability series and
a brainstorming session of the Music Committee. These gatherings
have drawn mixed crowds. So, first, I want to advocate
for your taking a chance and coming to the Fellowship for
your Friday evenings. While the First Friday Family Fellowship
Fun, ceilidh, and movie nights are all getting decent crowds,
the vespers service needs some attention. Last month was
my first chance to attend the vespers service, and I found
it an excellent close to the week. The group that puts
on these services is hoping for more support, so if this
alternative service is something you’ve thought about
attending, make time for it, or it will disappear.
Speaking of the sustainability series getting us to
take chances, it has caused me to look at one of my primary
practices and to attempt a change. That practice was
commuting by car. I am very fortunate to have a short
commute. The Fellowship is a bit more than a mile from
our house, and my classroom at Iowa State is just under
3 miles distant. So, I decided ride my bike.
So far this fall, I’ve only driven to my classroom twice,
times when I had appointments immediately after class that
took me farther afield. If you add the minutes it takes to
walk from the parking lot to my building to the time it takes
to drive from my house to campus, I’ve discovered that it takes
less time to bike the distance than it does to drive. And, on the
days that I bike, I’m more alert and feel better, even when
I’m wet and muddy.
I have biked to a number of meetings downtown and to visits at the
hospital. Those do require careful planning since it takes longer to
traverse those distances by bike. During the late summer and early fall,
I also found myself having to do more laundry, since I’d frequently be
a sweaty mess when I arrived home. Several people who came to see me at
the Fellowship this fall didn’t realize I was in my office since my
parking space was empty. So just because my space is empty doesn’t mean
my chair is. I have been fairly successful in my attempts to commute by
bike this fall. We’ll see how well it goes once the snow flies!
While I’m not about to hold up my short-lived transition to bike
commuting as an ideal for everyone, and I write about this with some
reluctance since the toughest months are ahead, I did want to comment
on one of the important changes that allowed me to make the shift. It
was a mental thing. My daily routine involved picking up my car keys
(oftentimes searching for them first), heading to the garage, and getting
into my car. In years past, I’ve made feeble attempts at commuting by bike,
which is probably why I’m hesitant to write about it now. Those times I’d
sit in my car and ask myself, “Could I ride instead of driving today?” But
the norm was always to drive. It was really easy to talk myself out of
riding, which I usually did. Too wet, too sunny, too windy, too much stuff
to carry, scheduled too tightly, might need the car to go somewhere, etc.
The list of reasons was long and convincing. Now my attitude is that I’ll
always be riding my bike. I have a rain jacket and a bag that hauls all my
stuff. My bike has lights. So I really have to work to find a reason
not to ride.
I’m trying to look at other aspects of my life where my routine is not in
sync with my values. Too often we get caught up in the momentum of living and
fail to actually think about how we’re engaged in that life which is ours.
Where in your life are you touching the earth with more force than you’d
like? Where are you putting the relationships that matter most second to
other priorities? It may take a shift of mind, but change is always possible,
for each moment is a new one.
One last note: Many of you may recall the Building Your Own Theology Sunday
morning program series from a couple of years ago. With the help of Brenda
Witherspoon, those sermons will soon be released as a book titled Can I Call
this God? These will be available at the Fellowship for $15, with all
profits going to the Fellowship.
See you on Sundays,
-- Brian |
Sunday, November 4, 9 & 11 a.m.
All Souls
the Rev. Brian Eslinger
Many traditions choose this time of year
to honor those who have died. We’ll hold a service
for all souls, taking time to honor those whose loss we
want to acknowledge. If you would like, please bring an
item to place on an altar of remembrance.
Sunday, November 11, 9 & 11 a.m.
Harvest Festival
the Rev. Brian Eslinger and the
Partner Church Committee
As we join in celebrating the annual harvest,
we’ll renew our ties with the traditions of our partner
church in Tordátfalva, Transylvania. Along with
exploring traditions from the past, we’ll also continue
our own tradition, the apple communion.
All-Congregational
Special Music: Fellowship Voices
Sunday, November 18, 9 & 11 a.m.
The De-Institutionalization of Religion
the Rev. Brian Eslinger
Oftentimes we hear people say, “I’m
spiritual but not religious.” I’ve often wondered
just what that means, but I think it has something to do
with a dislike of the idea of religion as an institution.
In this program, I’ll try to address the issue of
what happens when the institution of a religion becomes
more important than the spiritual needs of the people and
how we might de-institutionalize religion.
Special Music: Barb Evenson & Kristin Maah,
harps
Sunday, November 26, single service at 11 a.m.
Flavors of Gratitude
Sarah Carlson, Marty Helland, & Sam
Wormley
During this time of year after the fall
harvest, during the changing seasons, we take a break from
our busy lives to reflect and be thankful. Please join
in the sharing of our stories of gratitude and appreciation.
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